What do you call your music?
(Inward groan) "Oh, it's a little bit of this, and it's kind of like that, and sometimes it's like this"
If you don't want your music to be called a certain thing, the only solution is to decide what it should be called, and start calling it that. The challenge (and indeed this is my problem) is to *insist* that it be called that thing YOU say it should be called.
That's scary! I'm not sure if I'm ready for that part yet. But it's going to happen soon.